At one point or another, most screenwriters consider writing with a partner. They're hungry for someone to bounce ideas off of, and they're tired of the solitude of writing.

And that's how lots of impromptu writing partnerships are born. 

But the sad truth is that it can be hard to adjust to working with someone else, so many partnerships end as quickly as they began.

But that doesn't have to be the case.

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If you know what to expect going into a partnership, and you know how to write as part of a team it can actually be a rewarding experience. 

Chelsea and I have been writing together for almost four years now, so this article comes from experience.

Keep reading and you'll find out how to maximize your chance at success next time you try to write as part of a team. 

listen

The biggest sign of a good listener is someone who doesn’t interrupt. Let your partner speak their mind before you respond, and you’ll avoid tons of unnecessary conflicts.

don't Judge

You should find a writing partner that you genuinely think is a better writer than you. If you’re writing with someone that you think you’re better than, the partnership is doomed.

Compliment First

Whenever you’re giving notes on your partner’s pages, start with what you liked. It will set the tone for a productive conversation, and remind your partner that you’re a fan of their work.

Don't be afraid to look stupid

You need to be able to share any and all ideas with your writing partner, and you can’t be afraid to take chances on the page. Fear stifles good writing.

be willing to be re-written

Many writers struggle with others re-writing their work, even their own writing partners. This comes down to respect. Choose a partner you respect, and consider yourself lucky to have such a talented writer re-writing you.

don't get hung up on your own ideas

This goes hand in hand with ‘be willing to be re-written.’ You can’t take it personally when your partner deletes a line or moment that you liked. You can always put it back in if it’s that important, and chances are it didn’t work quite as well as you thought. Don’t be protective over your writing. It will slow you both down.

Carry Your Weight

If you’ve committed to writing 10 pages over the weekend, do it. No one likes a flake, especially when that flake is their writing partner. 

Know yourself as a writer

Part of the joy of having a writing partner is that you have someone to fill the holes in your writing. Find a writer that complements your weakenesses and vice versa. Together you’ll become a super-human force.

be honest

While it’s important to be supportive of your partner’s work, you have to lay it all out there when something isn’t working. Yes, your partner may bristle at first, but a good writer (and writing partner) has to face the music when there’s a problem that needs to be fixed.

seek input often

This is one of the main perks of having a writing partner. If you’re not sure, ask. Have lots of conversations. Two heads are better than one. That’s particularly true if you’ve got a good writing partner.

embrace Change

If you’re working with a partner, you can’t be stuck in your ways. He or she might realize something big about your story half way through the writing process. Be willing to explore that. Honor all of their ideas (good and bad) equally. 

be a focused Conversationalist

When you’re discussing your script with your partner, don’t get hung up on small details that don’t matter.

take ownership over your partner's work like it's your own

If you’re always keeping track of what they wrote versus what you wrote, you’re being too competitive and too possessive with your work. Take credit for your partner’s writing. Let them share in your brilliance too. That’s how you foster a good partnership. Everything equal, all the time. 
 


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Serita Stevens link
04/17/2013 1:47pm

When I worked with one partner we felt that we saw each other more than we saw our significant others! When we had disagreement about the way something was going in our story we actually went to a marriage counselor and hashed it out as to what was best for the story and not for our own egos.

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04/17/2013 4:13pm

That's awesome, Serita! I've never heard of writing partners going so far to get on the same page, but it sounds like it helped. I hope you and your partner are still writing together!!

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Ella
06/01/2013 3:41am

Wow, how cool! :)

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Ivy
06/01/2013 3:40am

I was just wondering, how do you actually work with each other? Like, how can you write a whole novel or screen play or whatever together? Do you split it in half or something? I'm really confused!! I had a good friend who is amazing at English and I (I'm being so modest here) have always loved and been good at it too, and have always wanted to become a novelist, but I just wanted to know how you actually do it?!
But it sounds like fun! :)

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Kinder_Surprise
06/01/2013 3:42am

Great article! Thanks.

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Serita Stevens link
06/01/2013 1:59pm

actually, that one writing partner is now deceased. My other partner whom I worked with, to answer Ivy's question, did not hold up her own and did not like to be rewritten. We had divided chapters of a non fiction book there and she did not do the required research. That relationship ended badly. The process I had with Rayanne, my first partner, worked out well as we talked through scenes and wrote them together. I usually typed because I was the faster typist, but yes, we did page by page together in the same room so that we were on the same page metaphorically speaking. And when we disagreed, we would seek a third party opinion. I think writing fiction separating chapters is very difficult because you both really need to understand the character and you need an excellent pre-outline.

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